>First of all: I had a great weekend, hope you all too!
My 9th column on www.fashionscene.nl was published yesterday: CLICK CLICK CLICK. I just post the Dutch link, as I’m too lazy to translate it to English today, I’m sorry. I just like to say a littlebit more about this column.
… a column of which I expected to have a lot responses too. I was right, because I got about 5 times more responses than usually. That was the reason I hesitated to do a column like this one (with photo’s, something it is very easily to judge on), as people can be very hard on you, you know. I know I published all my outfits on this blog either, but the blogscene is a world on itself… we respect each other ;). Anyways… I’m not unsatisfied; there were a lot of responses I liked. For example the person who reckonized I needed courage to do this; I like she imagined how I felt. Or the person who says; your way of dressing is just not my style, but I at least like your hair. There was someone who said: I don’t mean it negative, but I just don’t see where your combinations are based on. Possible, and very honoust, but I was thinking; if you would have read all my columns, you could have a very clear view of how I dress, I suppose…
Then there are the people who are just very negative. Which is not nice, but not wrong either to me. You can be honoust, and I know my style can be quite odd but very unique as well; that’s what I love so much about it. Things you don’t know, are easy to dislike I think… Just the people who say: BLEEEEEEH, I think don’t do anything good to this world, me or themselves.
I want to link this personal thoughts to my own character now. The people who know me, know I can be very fast with judgements and I’m very clear and happy to give my opinion. When it’s negative, it’s just negative. A while ago I had quite a problem with that as I was quite hard at a girl from my class. I got a discussion with the rest from my class -teacher included- in how far you could go with your opinion and which formulations you must use for that. I didn’t agree with them something negative should always include a little positivity as well. Now I felt, with this experience, as fragile as that girl must have felt… I just think they’re right. I’m very happy I experienced this, because experiences make you learn so much more than just “blablablas”.
(sorry my talk + English isn’t so organised… I’m quite tired ;))
So what do you actually think about this subject?
